South Asia is well known for preferring sons over daughters. According to a study carried out by Oxford Institute of Population Ageing, over the past two decades, son preference has become more strongly associated with the practice of continuing to bear children until couples have achieved their desired number of sons and daughters in Pakistan.
The study suggests that many families in Pakistan are increasingly making reproductive decisions based on the number of sons they have.
From January 2017 to April 2018, Edhi foundation and Chhipa Welfare organisation have found 345 such new born babies dumped in garbage in Karachi and 99 percent of them were girls.
“We have been dealing with such cases for years and there are a few such incidents which shook our souls as much. It left us wondering whether our society is heading back to primitive age,” Anwar Kazmi, a senior manager in Edhi Foundation Karachi, told The News.
Edhi Foundation has found 355 such dead infants from the garbage dumps across the country in 2017; 99 percent of them were identified girls. And Karachi has topped in this notorious ranking with 180 cases in 2017.
“Though people abandon these innocent souls but as a welfare organization we cannot. We give them a proper burial and perform other rituals for these babies. After completing the hospital and police formalities, we burry them in our own graveyard. The burial and other rituals cost us around Rs 2,000 per child. I wonder how poor can a person be that he/she cannot afford Rs 2000 to give a proper burial to their child,” commented Shahid Mehmood spokesperson of Chhipa Welfare Organization.
In many major cities of Pakistan, Edhi foundation installed ‘Jhoolas’ (baby cradles) so that the people should leave unwanted children there instead of killing them. The number of such sites is in hundreds across the country but this initiative received little success. One of the reasons for the lack of response to such ‘Jhoolas’ is wrath of religious leadership which believe this will promote illegitimacy. Although Edhi foundation claims they are getting positive response from people but their data is contradictory to this claim. According to Kazmi, the foundation received only 14 unwanted children in 2017, who were alive. Interestingly, 12 out of 14 were girls whereas the remaining two boys were physically unfit.
According to a police official in Additional Inspector General (AIG) Karachi office, Neelum Colony Karachi located near Clifton is one of the slum area of the metropolitan city. Majority of the inhabitant of this colony are living below the poverty line and are illiterate. Incidents of infanticide are occurring in those areas where people have no access to even basic necessities and Neelum Colony is one such area, brief an official in the AIG Karachi office.
“A few people found a baby at the door step of a mosque in Karachi and they handed the baby over to the prayer leader. The cleric decried that this is an illegitimate baby therefore he should be stoned. Resultantly the baby was stoned to death. I tried to register a case against the cleric but nothing happened”, narrated Kazmi.
In Pakistan, abortion is legal only in very limited circumstances. According to Guttmacher Institute, a global nonprofit that studies reproductive health, almost 4.2 million women experienced unintended pregnancies. Out of these unintended pregnancies, 34 percent women gave unplanned birth whereas 54 percent ended up in abortion. According to this data, approximately 696,000 Pakistani women were treated in public- and private-sector facilities for abortion complications, which translates to a rate of 15 per 1,000 women of reproductive age.
“Normally, nobody reports such cases in police station and during last one year the Karachi Police registered only one case of infanticide. The police can properly investigate the causes of such cases whether they are illegitimate children or there are any other reasons only if the people register complaints. The police can then find the areas where such cases are reported and ultimately unearth the reason behind such offence. For this purpose, the role of welfare organizations as well as common citizen is very important”, says the police official from AIG office.
“Poverty cannot be the only reason for infanticide or child abandonment. If a person has eight children then another one won’t be a burden on him. We need to look into other aspects as well. Illegitimacy can be another major cause of child abandonment but unfortunately very little work has been done on this issue because of the sensitivity of the issue”, believes Tahira Hasan, director of Imkaan Welfare organisation.
According to Miss Tahira
“We need to focus on family planning and there is a need of a proper awareness campaign to reduce misconception about family planning in the masses. This is a way of controlling unwanted pregnancies and ultimately unwanted children too”,